Showing posts with label lying. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lying. Show all posts

Stop the Lying in Wahsington (and in our lives)

Dr. Karl Menninger, who I wrote about in Legalism Brings about Division, Love Knits Us Together in Unity, wrote Whatever Became of Sin in 1973.  I recently picked this book up and have been awed page after page with how the problems of our society back in 1973 are still the problems facing us today.  His main point is that we gloss over sins, give them other names, and justify them away.  Here is a section of the book that just shows that some things never change.
Lies, Lies, Lies

I well remember the afternoon of Friday, May 7, 1915.  A half-dozen medical students at the University of Wisconsin were leaving the laboratory to go home for the day.  A newcomer arrived with an exciting message.  "They have done it!" he cried.  "The Germans have torpedoed the Lusitania.  And now the fat's in the fire.  There was no ammunition on that ship."

The argument as to whether Britain or Germany was most at fault continued for months and years afterward.  Sentiment turned increasingly against the Germans, and war began to be mentioned.  Finally, two years later, we were persuaded.  Over fifty years later, shortly before its own tragic demise, Life (October 13, 1972) published an excerpt from Lusitania, by Colin Simpson, a British journalist who had carefully examined all the old and much new information about the Lusitania.  And what does he say?

That the Lusitania was indeed heavily armed, that her manifests had been falsified to hide a large cargo of munitions and other contraband, that the English admiralty was strangely negligent in protecting the ship against attack, and that for some thirty years the United States Government purposely withheld the truth about the sinking from the public; it denied the facts and falsely accused Germany of an atrocity to arouse American sentiment against Germany.

In other words, while one cannot say that the event was staged, it was very largely maneuvered and greatly misrepresented and exploited by the British and American governments to induce hatred in the American people toward the German people.  In short, we were lied to by our leaders to maneuver our country into a war for political reasons and not to "save democracy."  By order of President Wilson, the truth about the Lusitania was buried until the time of President Franklin Roosevelt.

One hero stood out in all this shameful business.  On September 20, 1917, Senator Robert La Follette of Wisconsin stated in a public speech that it was true that the Lusitania had been carrying munitions and the President was aware of it.  The Senate promptly attempted to expel him for this treachery!  La Follette demanded exhibition of the true manifest of the Lusitania.  This was refused.  Dudley Field Malone, the Collector of Customs in New York, quietly offered to testify on La Follette's behalf, and the Senate dropped the shameful charges.  La Follette was one of the few public leaders who would not join in that great political lie which led to the death and maiming of millions of human beings.

I lived through these days and these conflicts of opinion and contradictory news dispatches, and the tragic years that followed.  For me, lying is a sin in large letters, and lying by leaders is unforgivable.

The rally cry, "Save Democracy," still has as much appeal to us today as it did in the run-up to World War One.  That war was sold as a fight for democracy and the war to end all wars.  But the American people bought into a mislabeled bag of goods that they paid for with their lives.  This war, and the condition that it left Germany in, set up a nation for the likes of a dictator like Adolf Hitler.

It seems that we have a historical tendency to create our greatest enemies through our involvement in affairs abroad.  We created the situation that created Hitler.  We funded Saddam Hussein and gave him the military equipment he then used against us.  We even gave Osama Bin Laden his wealth during his fight against the Soviet Union.  When are leaders lie, manipulate, and destroy in order to gain, we are left in a worse situation than we were before.

And we still follow the drum beat of lies into war.  We blindly believe our politicians when they say a war is how we are defending our homeland and saving democracy.

We need to repent as a nation.

We need to stop accepting lying as the status quo.

We need to call sin what it is and refuse to allow egregious and continual sinners to lead us.  A lie is a sin, yet we like to color it up and call it protection, marketing, and public affairs.  How have we allowed lying to become commonplace? 

We need to stop attacking those who point out that the emperor has no clothes and begin to be upset that the emperor is actually naked.  It is extremely difficult to stand up against the powers that be in a society that likes to pretend that the powers that be, at least the ones on the same side of the political aisle, are never wrong.  We must realize that those who we blindly accept as being right are those who are most dangerous to us.

Until our frustration is directed at the right things, we will never see any significant change.  Along with expecting our leaders to not be liars, we must also direct some of our frustration on self-reflection.  We need to repent and be the people that God wants us to be.  

Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God. They collapse and fall, but we rise and stand upright. O Lord, save the king! May he answer us when we call.  Psalms 20:7-9 (ESV)  

Some trust in lies and deception, in money and military might, but we will trust in God.  Let's stop coloring up sin in fancy, acceptable terms because sin is never acceptable.

Getting Past the Right Answers - Becoming Honest with Ourselves

People who have been churchgoers for a while know the right answers to say so that we can look like we are totally committed to Jesus, but when it comes to actually living out the right answers, we fail more often than not.

For instance, we say that we believe in the power of prayer, but when was the last time that we spent thirty minutes in prayer?

We say that we believe that the Scriptures are the inspired word of God, but when was the last time we seriously studied them?

We say that we believe that following Jesus is the best life that anyone could possibly live, but when was the last time that we shared the gospel with someone?

We say that we value living life together in Christian community, but when was the last time that we sacrificed, whether financially or with our time, for our community?

We say that we trust God, but when was the last time we despaired and doubted?

What we do shows what we really believe.  The right answers are easy.  Too easy.  But living out the radical call of the gospel in our lives is difficult.

Paul wrote in his letter to Colossae, "Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.
Colossians 3:9-10 (ESV)

I heard Craig Groeschel give a sermon the other week where he said, "I'm guessing that some of you know someone who has told a lie so many times that they start to believe the lie is true."  Then he went on to ask, "How many of you would honestly say, that for you that battling with self-deception is a significant problem?  You're really, really deceived about a lot of things?"  Only a few people raised their hands.  Then he asked, "How many of you know someone else who is really self-deceived?"  The hands then raised from nearly everyone.  He told them to look around and ask, "Do we have a statistical problem?"  The problem is that we can notice the self-deception in other people while we consider the self-deception in ourselves justified.

Why is it so hard to be honest with ourselves?  Do we not like who really are?  Are we embarrassed about our failures?  Paul said to not lie to one another, but I think we really need to stop lying to ourselves.  We need to put on that new self, allow the knowledge that we become enlightened with to transform us, but we can never do that if we keep telling ourselves that the old, out-of-style clothes that we are still wearing are still in.

We have developed an immunity due to familiarity with the Gospel that should transform us.  As churchgoers, we have developed, what I consider, sermon immunity.  It means that we can listen to a sermon, think it is great or awful, and go home and not do a thing about.  We have learned how to listen to a message and remain immune to any change.

This has become easier because we have become more and more inundated with knowledge.  Wikileaks just leaked 251,287 State Department documents.  It was said back in 1989 that a weekday edition of The New York Times contains more information than the average person in 17th-century England was likely to come across in a lifetime (Information Anxiety).  Around 1,000 books are published internationally every day and the total of all printed knowledge doubles every 5 years.  More information is estimated to have been produced in the last 30 years than in the previous 5,000 (The Reuters Guide to Good Information).  Information is everywhere.  If we have any question about any historical event, we can just Google it and have the answer.  But allowing the right knowledge to transform us is more important than just knowing some information, being able to wow your friends with trivia, or passing a test.

What Paul wants us to do is really believe in the depths of our being.  To allow our beliefs to wash through our body and come out in the way we live.  For a belief that is kept in the head and not expressed in the hands and feet is not a true belief.  It's just us deceiving ourselves.  And if we won't be the hands and feet of Jesus' head, who will be? 

James wrote:
But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing.

If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless. Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.  James 1:22-27 (ESV).
Let's stop lying.  We have places to go and new clothes to put on to get us there.

The Emperor's Seed - A Chinese Parable

Once there was an emperor in the Far East who was growing old and knew it was coming time to choose his successor. Instead of choosing one of his assistants or one of his own children, he decided to do something different.

He called all the young people in the kingdom together one day. He said, "It has come time for me to step down and to choose the next emperor. I have decided to choose one of you." The kids were shocked! But the emperor continued. "I am going to give each one of you a seed today. One seed. It is a very special seed. I want you to go home, plant the seed, water it and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from this one seed. I will then judge the plants that you bring to me, and the one I choose will be the next emperor of the kingdom!"

There was one boy named Ling who was there that day and he, like the others, received a seed. He went home and excitedly told his mother the whole story. She helped him get a pot and some planting soil, and he planted the seed and watered it carefully. Every day he would water it and watch to see if it had grown.

After about three weeks, some of the other youths began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow. Ling kept going home and checking his seed, but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four weeks, five weeks went by. Still nothing.

By now others were talking about their plants but Ling didn't have a plant, and he felt like a failure. Six months went by, still nothing in Ling's pot. He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Ling didn't say anything to his friends, however. He just kept waiting for his seed to grow.

A year finally went by and all the youths of the kingdom brought their plants to the emperor for inspection. Ling told his mother that he wasn't going to take an empty pot. But she encouraged him to go, and to take his pot, and to be honest about what happened. Ling felt sick to his stomach, but he knew his mother was right. He took his empty pot to the palace.

When Ling arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants grown by all the other youths. They were beautiful, in all shapes and sizes. Ling put his empty pot on the floor and many of the other kinds laughed at him. A few felt sorry for him and just said, "Hey, nice try."

When the emperor arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted the young people. Ling just tried to hide in the back. "My, what great plants, trees and flowers you have grown," said the emperor. "Today, one of you will be appointed the next emperor!"

All of a sudden, the emperor spotted Ling at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered his guards to bring him to the front. Ling was terrified. "The emperor knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me killed!"

When Ling got to the front, the Emperor asked his name. "My name is Ling," he replied. All the kids were laughing and making fun of him. The emperor asked everyone to quiet down. He looked at Ling, and then announced to the crowd, "Behold your new emperor! His name is Ling!" Ling couldn't believe it. Ling couldn't even grow his seed. How could he be the new emperor?

Then the emperor said, "One year ago today, I gave everyone here a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it, and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds which would not grow. All of you, except Ling, have brought me trees and plants and flowers. When you found that the seed would not grown, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Ling was the only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new emperor!"

Falsehood, Lies, and A Culture of Deception

Falsehood is the dismantler of community.  We can’t have relationships with one another, nor can we be helped by others if we are fake.  Rather than changing who we really are, it is much easier to put on a mask.  Putting on a mask and acting like someone we are not can seem so normal at times, and the more we do it the more normal it begins to feel.  It can be the way we try to present ourselves to be more appealing to others.  In church, it can be us trying to be holier than we are.  At work, it can be acting busier and more successful than we really are.  Wherever we pretend to be someone we are not, it prohibits us from having real relationships with one another because falsehood hides the real self.  Withou real relationships, we will not enjoy the life God intended for us to have and cannot be the body together that Jesus is trying to shape us into being.

Putting away falsehood is much more than just not telling a lie.  We can be legalistic and self-righteous about always telling the truth.  Putting away falsehood is about living transparently, about not trying to deceive, about not cutting corners, about dealing fairly with everyone you deal with, and sharing our lives with one another.  In our culture, we begin to justify things like downloading free music, software, or games.  We cut corners on paying taxes or getting permits.  We can try to profit off the ignorance of others or find a way to cheat and get ahead.  We can abstain from telling lies and still be dishonest people.


At the core of a dishonest life is discontentment about our situation, about who we are, and not truly believing that God loves us for who we are.  You don’t need to try and be someone else and be fake; you just need to allow God to wrap his arms around you, clothe you in the new self he has designed for you, and live trying to be who he wants you to be.  If you feel you need to be someone else, don’t take the cheap path and fake it.  Put on the new self that God wants you to be but always remember that God loves you for who you are.  Before you get all prettied up, make yourself beautiful, God loves you.  Before you bring home money to feed the family, God still loves you.  You no longer need to fake anything.  There is no need to put on falsehood.  You just need to recognize the ultimate truth:  God loves you.  He made who you are.  He made you with a purpose in mind.  God infinitely loves you.

"Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another" Eph 4:25 (ESV).

Just a Lie - The Forgotten But Beautiful Trait of Honesty


During the speculation on whether Barry Bonds used steroids, He stated rather vehemently during a press conference, "All you guys lie, all of y'all, in a story or whatever, have lied. Should you have an asterisk behind your name? All of you have lied. All of you have said something wrong, all of you have dirt. All of you. When your closet's clean, then come clean somebody else's. But clean yours first, okay."

In the documentary Bigger, Stronger, Faster the general consensus of many of the steroid users in the film was that everyone uses them, and they just do it to stay even.  They say to themselves that cheating isn't really cheating if everyone is doing it.  It  great documentary that gave a behind the scene glimpse at the weightlifting and steroid culture.  In one scene, balancing out all of the lies that the steroid users tell themselves and those around them, the mother of the guys who used steroids told them that each fiber of their beings was made by God, and he made them the way he wanted them.

Barry justified his use of steroids and his being deceptive about it by saying that everyone is a cheater like him, and that would make him not a cheater.  He must have not known Brian Davis.  Brian Davis called a penalty on himself after nicking a reed during his backswing at a PGA tour event in Hilton Head.  None of the officials noticed it.  To the naked eye, it was nearly imperceptible, but he felt the vibration in his club.  He did not want to win if it meant he had to be deceptive.

“It was one of those things,” he said. “I thought I saw movement out of the corner of my eye. I thought we’d check on TV, and indeed there was movement...I want to win a PGA Tour event more than just about anything but I play by the rules and no victory would be worthwhile if it had a cloud hanging over it. I saw the grass move, called Slugger (White, the referee) over and that’s it, end of story.”

Oh, the beauty of honesty.

"Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another" Eph 4:25 (ESV).