Jesus said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." That's a tough teaching. Most of us who have a heart for people who do not know Jesus wish that this was not the case, but no amount of wishing changes the truth laid out by Jesus. He claimed to be the only way to God.
But believing is hard at times. I have found it more difficult to believe at certain times in my life. When my grandmother died, when I became disillusioned with the way the church operates, and when we lost our twins were all critical points that greatly challenged my faith. The first one led to me straying in a spiritual wilderness during my high school years. The second kicked off my greatest adult crisis in the faith. One in which I nearly stopped following Jesus. And the third caused me to doubt whether God really does take care of those who follow Him.
And I am not alone in struggling with my faith at times. We all find it difficult to believe at critical points in our life. As we mature in the faith, the challenge to our faith that different crises cause are different. No longer are we tempted to discard the faith, but we will use our supreme spiritual intellect and morph the faith just a little to appease our sensibilities. We stray from the teachings of Scripture and start to construct a God that is palatable. In doing so, we lose the faith one small step at a time.
Ask a rancher how a cow gets lost, and chances are he will reply, “Well, the cow starts nibbling on a tuft of green grass, and when it finishes, it looks ahead to the next tuft of green grass, and when it finishes, it looks ahead to the next tuft of green grass and starts nibbling on that one, and then it nibbles on a tuft of grass right next to a hole in the fence. It then sees another tuft of green grass on the other side of the fence, so it nibbles on that one and then goes on to the next tuft. The next thing you know, the cow has nibbled itself into being lost.”
Those who claim to follow Jesus must hold tightly to what we claim to believe because it is easy to stray away. Like the cow just nibbling on the next tuft of green grass, we don't even realize we are wandering.
I read through the book of Hebrews and noted all that the author of Hebrews wrote that we are to believe if we claim to be followers of Jesus.
We should believe:
God exists
God rewards those who seek him.
Jesus died to make us right with God.
Jesus now rules at the right hand of God.
Jesus knows how we should live.
And these beliefs are not just some intellectual pie in the sky thoughts. These beliefs, when truly believed, shape how we live.
Our belief in the these teachings
allow us to enter into the presence of God.
give us the confidence to keep the faith.
enable us to encourage one another on toward love and good deeds.
empower us with the boldness to live in the spiritual reality even when our physical reality tells us otherwise.
In the movie Henry Poole Is Here there is a scene where Henry Poole, played by Luke Wilson, is faced with a woman who believes. Henry Poole is given a fatal diagnosis and sentimentally moves back to the neighborhood where he grew up. But the neighborhood interrupts his peaceful demise. A picture of Jesus starts appearing on his outside wall. Henry thinks it is just a mark made form water, but his neighbor, Esperanza, believes it is miraculous. But then his six-year-old child, who has not talked since her father left the house over a year ago, touches the picture on the wall and starts talking. This scene picks up after that miracle.
For those who didn't watch the scene above, here is how it goes.
Henry asks, "Why is it so important to you that something like that could happen?...I'll tell you. Because if you can convince me, then suddenly your beliefs become more real. Right?...So until you get me to swallow your world and believe what you believe, you'll never have the kind of faith that you want to have. You'll always have a little bit of doubt. You'll never know if you're quite right. You'll always be kind of wondering if it is real. You'll always be sitting over there waiting for that man to come waltzing back in from the dead. And that's sad. That's really sad."
Esperanza replies, "I'm just trying to help."
If we believe in Jesus, we will be accused of many of the things that Henry Poole accused Esperanza of. This is painful because, like Esperanza, we know that our beliefs will help people. We don't share what we believe out of ulterior motives. We share what we believe because we truly believe that people will be helped if they believe the same things.
Don't make the mistake of confusing "believe" with "pretend." If you have ever been to Disney, you would have also been inundated with their slogan, "believe." I was confused with what they really wanted me to believe in. Was I to believe hat Jack Sparrow is real? Was I to believe that my toys really do walk around my room, play, and have dangerous crises when I am not there? Am I to believe that I can be some special princess by buying a costume and wearing it around my house? (I bet you would like to see that.) It's fun to pretend those things (well, except for me in the costume). I have no problem with pretending, but belief is much more than pretending. Pretending is just fun; believing is the foundational core of who we are.
So if you're reading this and struggling with the faith, I challenge you to believe that God exists, God rewards those who seek him, Jesus died to make us right with God, Jesus now rules at the right hand of God, Jesus knows how we should live. He is faithful and just, and will honor your perseverance through the tough times. It might seem strange at times, but believing those foundational thoughts will lead you to living a more fulfilling life.
"Without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him" [Hebrews 11:6 (ESV)].
I reacted poorly when my Grandma Jessie died. Like most people, I loved my grandma. She used to make the best parched corn, would crack walnuts for me, let me drink out of her old metal cup, pick cherries and raspberries with me, and give me butterscotch mints. Having grown up across the street from her house, I spent a few hours there most everyday. I took many naps on that couch on which this picture was taken. But after a long battle with melanoma, she died. Instead of growing closer to God, which she would have wanted, I hardened my heart toward Him.
I was fifteen when she died. I should have been old enough to handle it properly, but I didn't. Like many people who struggle with God after the death of someone, I had a faith that did not properly understand death and suffering.
My father shared with me a similar story of struggling with God over death. He had prayed for his father to stop drinking, but his father never did. He eventually died of liver problems when my father was twenty-one. From that point until much later in his life, he stopped living his life for God, a God who he felt did not answers his prayers for his father to be delivered from alcoholism.
Death. It's not just a destroyer of life; it can also be a destroyer of faith.
Two Sundays ago, Diane Schuler, 36, of West Babylon, New York, was driving her two children and her three nieces home from a weekend camping trip in Sullivan County when she inexplicably entered the northbound Taconic going south. While we were sitting around enjoying and sharing a meal with friends, tragedy destroyed two families.
The result was the worst accident in Westchester County in 75 years. Killed with Schuler were four children in her car and three men from Yonkers in an SUV. The only survivor was Schuler’s five year old son Bryan. Dead were Emma Hance, 9, Alison Hance, 7, and Kate Hance, 5, along with the driver, 36-year old Diane, and her two-year old daughter, Erin.
In the eulogy, Warren Hance, the mourning father of the three children, stated, “Love your children. Cherish your children. Kiss your children. And do not forget . . .” I cannot fathom his pain, and it’s seems almost shallow to say in his hurt, but Jesus would say the same message to him that he says to us during our struggles: “Stay faithful to me even through the pain.”
When the physical world around us does not equal spiritual truth, we need to never give in to the physical facade. Death will come. Jesus warned that his death would come (John 13: 18-19, John 14:28-29, John 16:1-4). John ended the book with the warning that his death would come (John 21:20-23). They both encouraged people to not lose faith because of death. The physical laws of this world cannot contain God. When Jesus died on the cross, the resurrection was not far behind.
The disciples did not have the hindsight after the crucifixion that the completed Gospel gives. Before the resurrection, physical reality controlled them. They were expecting a physical kingdom that would take over the nations of the world. They were expecting Jesus to be the emperor that united the world under the banner of Israel. They had forgotten that the warnings of Jesus concerning his death and the prayer in which Jesus taught them to pray.
In the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus taught them to pray “Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10). His kingdom is partly here and his will is partly here, but it is trying to break through more and more. Each of us should be about living in the spiritual reality, transforming the physical façade around us into that reality as much as we are able. We need to live in the resurrection where the limitations of this world have no hold.
It took the resurrection and the Holy Spirit to give the apostles the boldness to stand firm and bring about about God’s kingdom and his will. After the crucifixion and before the resurrection, Peter denied Jesus despite faithfully following him and adamantly proclaiming him the Messiah before his death. The physical death of Jesus destroyed all of their dreams of what they thought was going to happen. Those dreams were crushed on Golgotha. But the resurrection gave these guys the strength to stand up for what they knew was right no matter what life threw their way. And tragedy would come their way. Church history teaches that all of them, save John, were crucified just like Jesus. John was exiled to the island of Patmos.
Jesus gives us hope, hope to continue on when life seems to say we need to quit. He warned us that life will not be a bed of roses. We need to live in the promise that “all things” will be worked out for our good (Romans 8:28). Better days are ahead no matter what we are facing.
At my baptism in 1988, my Grandma Jessie gave me a Bible and wrote this in the inside cover.
Dear Grandson Regan,
“Lo – I am with you always.”
With the right attitudes and God’s help you can cope with anything.
Train yourself to think spiritually with hope and optimism and enthusiasm.