Showing posts with label church attendance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label church attendance. Show all posts

The Weekly Worship Gathering, Church, and Donald Miller

On Monday, Donald Miller wrote an article that created a lot of buzz: I Don’t Worship God by Singing. I Connect With Him Elsewhere.

The internet started writing. One good reply was Donald Miller and the Culture of Contemporary Worship.

All of the replies spurred Donald Miller to enter the fray again. Why I Don’t Go to Church Very Often, a Follow Up Blog.

In the follow up, he wrote: "And yet, most of the influential Christian leaders I know (who are not pastors) do not attend church."

That sentence greatly disturbed me.

When our life together as local churches are being greatly influenced by those who have abandoned the weekly worship gathering, it is no wonder that churches struggle.

When we "graduate" from the instructional side of church, we should turn around and become mentors to others. The cycle continues, and I find it wrong to say that we grow out of the cycle.

Tony Campolo famously said, "The church is a whore, but she's my mother." I can relate. Not because of my earthly mother. She's a wonderfully faithful woman. I can relate because I have also been disillusioned with the institutional church at times. Extremely disillusioned.

I can sympathize with the same wrestling match that Donald is expressing, yet I was convicted through my journey to actually make a difference by being part of the institutional church.  God convicts us of what is wrong not to flee but to bring about the change that is needed.

My disillusionment with the institutional church led me to plant a collection of house churches. I wanted to save God's money from staff and buildings to have a greater kingdom impact on the world. I wanted to foster a more intimate, real community of believers. These house churches, despite having more resources and a better fellowship, really struggle to come alongside the lost and bring them into right relationships with Jesus. The "institutional" church still does a fairly good job at this. I don't understand how. It still baffles my mind.

I don't know how to gracefully say it, but I do say this filled with kindness and love: I think we all may be thinking that weekend gatherings are for us. But then our wishes and desires aren't catered to in the worship gathering. Maybe it doesn't jive with our learning style. Maybe the music isn't in a format that we would listen to on the radio. Maybe the speaker isn't connecting with us. So we, in a different way, begin to think that the weekend worship gatherings aren't for us because they weren't designed for us.

Donald Miller exemplifies this thinking, but I also see it in the lives of those in the community I live in. Many Christians have abandoned the weekend gatherings of believers despite those gatherings being the best method of reaching the lost. And if the mature Christians all flee because they have grown beyond it, what happens? This becomes an even bigger issue in our transient culture. The mature Christians will move on, leaving those they began discipling without a community to be plugged in to.

We have a serious dearth of mature Christians to mentor the new ones in our weekly worship gatherings. Christians who will invite people over after the gathering and open up their homes and share a meal. Christians who help when help is needed. Christians who will step up and be the bridge that the gospel travels on. And this may be because the Donald Millers of this world are leaving the weekly worship gatherings. Christians who reach that point then want to abandon the gathering that helped them get there.

The weekly gathering of the church is something worth fighting for. It works. And it also has a historical tradition that can be traced all the way back to the early church. It may have some difficulties in our hyper-individualized American culture of the moment, but it is still the vessel I am seeing lives changed through. And, despite all its flaws, that is a beautiful thing.

Reaction to Andrew Sullivan's Christianity in Crisis

Andrew Sullivan: Christianity in Crisis

Saying "Christianity has been destroyed by politics, priests, and get-rich evangelists" is like saying that it once was better, as if there was a golden age of glorious Christianity at some point in the past. Was that golden age in the 80s when our most prominent spokespeople were Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson, and Jim Bakker? Or the 60s, when a girl would get pregnant and be shipped out of town? Or the 40s, when we imprisoned those who couldn't fight in the war without destroying their conscience? And we can go even further back and find terrible atrocities.

I am always a little hesitant to look at some point in the past as the golden age.

I'm encouraged by the church these days. What I see in the church today is a great thing, albeit mired at times and places by confusion. Not that the church being in a good place is exclusive to our era. People are going back to the Scriptures. People are trying to following Jesus no matter how radical those teachings might be. People are recognizing that the church is more about relationships than institution. And I see many churches who are living out their witness to their community and the world together. I think we are in good times for the church. Sullivan might just need to find a different, healthy church to be part of.

This is the first time that I have encountered the idea that Jefferson mutilating his Bible and picking and choosing what passages he wanted to follow was a positive thing. That twist is new to me. But there is this fad today of only following the teachings of Jesus. It's not the worst thing in the world. But comparing Jefferson to Jesus is strange. Jefferson cannot be lifted up as nonviolent, one of the tenets of the Gospel that Sullivan keeps bringing up as a good thing. Jefferson was one the key figures in the preparations for the Revolutionary War and was the governor of Virginia during it. When he became President, he initiated the Barbary Wars, which set the tone early on for American international military excursions. Jefferson might have done a lot of great things, but he didn't live by the teachings of Jesus as Sullivan decribes them. Actually, Jefferson was a man who claimed to be a follower of Jesus and then used politics to give Jesus a bad name, just like the people that are easy to criticize from the modern era. Stumbling, bumbling, modern-day followers of Jesus are easier to criticize than Jefferson because we have not yet made them into gods.

The idea that organized religion is in trouble is an American fallacy. Some of the mainline denominations have not made the transition into the modern era and are in trouble, dwindling in numbers. But church attendance appears to be steady throughout the land. There has been a great non-denomination surge. Now, I live in an area where that attendance is lower than the national average, but the national average is pretty impressive.

Sullivan really needs to read two articles. I find it hard to believe that he doesn't already know these things. Many evangelicals, like myself, are not Santorum supporters nor do we consider ourselves Republicans. Jim Wallis wrote Defining "Evangelicals" in an Election Year. I understand when secular writers have swallowed the talking points about who evangelicals are, but Sullivan should have known better.

And my brief article talking about church attendance through the years. Obsessing Over Oddities - The Focus of a Life in Jesus and The False Assumption that Church Attendance is Declining in America.

Sullivan has swallowed some teachings that are a little off. He writes, "He [Jesus] was a celibate who, along with his followers, anticipated an imminent End of the World where reproduction was completely irrelevant." Jesus didn't expect an imminent End of the World. He expected an imminent arrival of the Kingdom. That is different than the end of the world. His followers were also not expecting an end of the world, but a resurgence of the kingdom of Israel. They didn't get what they wanted although the kingdom did arrive; it just looked and behaved differently. Now, one could argue that Paul misunderstood the imminence of the end of the world. I think that point could be made.

Sullivan also wrote, "He [Jesus] disowned his parents in public as a teen, and told his followers to abandon theirs if they wanted to follow him." Really? Jesus gave some harsh statements about family, but His "disowned" mother was there with Him at the cross and He asked John to take care of her. Doesn't sound like the type of "disowned" Sullivan is going after.

Sullivan does hit the same points that I hit. We should care more about being like Jesus than attacking homosexuality. We spend our time attacking the world rather than examining ourselves and being the light of the world. I would echo what Paul said, "For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge? God judges those outside. “Purge the evil person from among you”
(1 Cor 5:12-13 ESV). But Paul is not en vogue and should apparently be discarded.

Sullivan's main point is right on. It's just convoluted getting there. "Above all: give up power over others, because power, if it is to be effective, ultimately requires the threat of violence, and violence is incompatible with the total acceptance and love of all other human beings that is at the sacred heart of Jesus’ teaching."

And then Sullivan hits his stride when he tackles Francis (again, an illustration that the church is continually resisting the siren call of the world and its power).

"When politics is necessary, as it is, the kind of Christianity I am describing seeks always to translate religious truths into reasoned, secular arguments that can appeal to those of other faiths and none at all. But it also means, at times, renouncing Caesar in favor of the Christ to whom Jefferson, Francis, my grandmother, and countless generations of believers have selflessly devoted themselves."
Amen. Mostly. Jefferson became Caesar, so I still propose that Jefferson is not a good example of renouncing the ways of Caesar, but the point is great.

And once again, after making a great point, Sullivan muddies it with more Jefferson and reason:
"I have no concrete idea how Christianity will wrestle free of its current crisis, of its distractions and temptations, and above all its enmeshment with the things of this world. But I do know it won’t happen by even more furious denunciations of others, by focusing on politics rather than prayer, by concerning ourselves with the sex lives and heretical thoughts of others rather than with the constant struggle to liberate ourselves from what keeps us from God. What Jefferson saw in Jesus of Nazareth was utterly compatible with reason and with the future; what Saint Francis trusted in was the simple, terrifying love of God for Creation itself. That never ends."
This whole talk of Jesus being reasonalbe goes somewhere I wouldn't want to go. I would much rather follow Francis' life of self-sacrifice and refuse a pillow. Might be completely unreasonable, but there is something beautiful in it.

Christianity is in crisis. But this is nothing new. It has been in crisis as early as the conference in Jerusalem recorded in Acts 15. Throughout the letters of Paul, we see him dealing with crisis after crisis that the church faced at that time. I would avoid discarding everything except the teachings of Jesus, for then we will eventually have a different crisis on our hands. But I would also avoid making complex systematic theologies that get us so focused on doctrine that we ignore the clear and simple teachings of Jesus.

Let's love the story of God. Let's live the story of God. Let's not imagine that it is contained only in the Gospels. Let's let it overflow from our lives.

Obsessing Over Oddities - The Focus of a Life in Jesus and The False Assumption that Church Attendance is Declining in America

Recently, one of those Facebook chain messages - you know the kind that get repeated and repeated with the caveat at the end that you should also post on your page - appeared on many well-intentioned Christian status updates.  This one blamed the rising unemployment and increased gas prices in America on removing prayer from school and companies saying "Happy Holidays" rather than "Merry Christmas".  


As you can see above, Ryan, an atheist friend of mine, posted that he thought it was outrageous.  I think I will have to side with the atheist on this one.  What Christians often fail to see is how ensnared in American materialism they have become.  There are more important things to life that than cheap gas and being employed.  For starters, its nice that we have created a society that has a social umbrella to keep the unemployed fed.  That's good, loving, Christian action happening all around us.  

The cheap gas, that some view as a blessing, could actually be a manifestation of our immorality, not a blessing for our faithfulness.  When people sin, they usually do it because they receive a buzz or a rush that keeps them doing it.  For us, the buzz might just be spending less money on gas.  Is the buzz worth it in the long term?  Is the gas really cheap even when it does not appear to cost much money at the pump?  How many lives have we paid (both through sacrificing and killing) for that cheap gas?  How much money have we spent to prop up unjust puppet dictators who would like to export to us?  How much treasure have we spent on our military to go around acting like the oil police in order to bring "stability" to those oil-producing nations?  All in the name of "cheap" gas.  Even free gas would not be cheap when you measure it by the societal impact we must pay to have it.  

On the other side of the coin, I probably disagree with my atheist friend.  God does bless and punish nations, but I don't think the standard He uses to measure faithfulness are school prayer and whether people say "Merry Christmas" rather than "Happy Holidays".  Those are just two external rituals that people who do not even believe in Him can participate in.  They do not even come close to transforming a society into a reflection of the kingdom of God.  The awe-inspiring, majestic, and powerful kingdom of God is morphed into a petty kingdom of beguiling issues.  Sadly, the Christian community gets so distracted and caught up in sideshows like the battle for prayer in school and "Merry Christmas" that we ignore that we have already ran to the bottom of the feared slippery slope in order to fight these petty battles.  Jesus would like us to use "how we love our neighbor" as the measuring stick for our faithfulness, not another well-intentioned, yet really meaningless, fight against or for the petty trend of the day.

One of the myths that caused the false conclusion that religion is losing influence in America is the belief that church attendance is on the decline in America.  Christianity Today's article, Three Church Growth Myths shows that isn't the case.  


60 YEARS OF STEADY WEEKLY CHURCH ATTENDANCE
Year------------------
%
1939
41
1950
39
1955
49
1962
46
1967
43
1972
40
1977
41
1980
40
1985
42
1990
40
1996
37
1999
43
 
Don't start cheering or sneering yet.  Church attendance was not really at 43% in 1999.  That's just what people claim.

A study from 1993, What the polls don't show: A closer look at U.S. church attendance, shows that the numbers cited in these surveys are skewed by people either projecting who they want to be in regard to church attendance or just outright lying.  What the authors of this study found was that there was a huge discrepancy from church attendance numbers and the percentage of people who say they are regular attenders.  They studied Ashtabula County in northeastern Ohio.  They conducted their own survey and found that 35.8% of Protestants claimed to have attended church in the last seven days.  They then contacted every church to ask their actual church attendance numbers.  The reality was that only 19.6% of Protestants actually attended.  They then studied Catholic numbers in various cities.  They showed a similar drop in claimed attendance versus actual attendance. 

Despite the popular thought that America was more Christian in the past, there is no evidence to support that claim.  A great Christian decline has not occurred from the mythological golden age of the 1950s until now.  That is not to say that a decline has not been felt more locally; there has been a decline in most mainline Protestant denominations, but the slack has been picked up by the surge in non-denominational churches and new denominational upstarts.  The church population has experienced been more of a shift than a decline, yet the church is keeping up with the population growth.  All studies show that around 40 percent say that they go to church.  Since they started counting the actual number in 1990, the survey numbers have still been right around that 40 percent level. One could logically assume that the same percentage of people were lying in all the church attendance surveys and conclude that church attendance has been the same in American since World War II.

Unfortunately, the Facebook status updates like the one that began this discussion are the result of a "world is out to get us" and "things are getting terrible" attitude that Christians identify with. Certain strains of Christianity foster this destructive attitude, but this is not the message that Jesus taught. It's really a shame because we - if what we claim to believe is true - should have the most blessed and joyful lives; lives that inspire us and others to live sacrificially and love others so that the world can be a better reflection of the kingdom of God.