Maria Full of Grace - A Review and Thoughts

Last night Lindsay and I watched Maria Full of Grace. After watching Million Dollar Baby (possilbe review coming) on Sunday night with Lindsay's parents, we weren't ready yet for another depressing movie. But at least Maria Full of Grace left us with hope.



I'm not good at telling these things without spoilers. I highly recommend this Spanish language movie with English subtitles. It is a great, albeit depressing, and thought-provoking piece. Be warned - SPOILER ALERT!

The story centers around a seventeen-year-old girl from Colombia who gets pregnant with a boyfriend she doesn't love (although that isn't completely clear - it might just be that he doesn't love her). The girl makes one mistake (usually a result of her being deceptive) after another until she finds herself pregnant, unemployed (apparently she was out of school - I don't know what the school structure is like in Colombia), and desperate.

How desperate would you need to be in order to swallow 62 large grape-sized capsules of cocaine and use your body as a mule to haul them from Colombia to America? Apparently, Maria was that desperate. The story transitions from her struggle as an unemployed, pregnant Colombian girl to her stressful tale as a drug mule. It's a real tense situation (and the main storyline of the movie) that I will leave for your viewing pleasure.

The question I was left with after watching is what does the title - "Maria Full of Grace" - mean. How is she full of grace? What is the graceful act she received? Did she show grace to people? Maybe a little but not enough to say she is full of grace. Then it all came together in my head. At the end, Maria walked in front of a giant Intel advertisement that declared "It's what's inside that counts." All of her mistakes, lies, and deceptions helped bring about a better life for her and her child despite that those actions would normally result in destruction. **SUPER SPOILER ALERT** To her baby, they are what will allow him to become American, which in the movie was portrayed as a great thing that would result in a better life. This horrible and tragic story is filled with grace because in the end it brought about a better life for Maria and, especially, for her baby.

Watch out for the potholes.

Special Introductory Offers - The Deceptions We Use In Evangelism

I was laying on the couch trying to get better. I'm coming down with the flu and am missing the gathering today. This popped in my head as I laid there.

I would love to get DIRECTV. About once a month we get fliers in the mail for their great introductory offer. They always offer something like $30/month for all their channels and a DVR recorder. I could almost swallow that. But then in the fine print it tells me that after the three month introductory period I will be paying around $45 for just the basic and local channels. I hate introductory offers. Just give me a good long-term deal, and I will sign up. I feel that I must be in the minorit in looking at what things really cost because they wouldn't keep using these tricks.

Credit Card companies are kings of the special introductory offer trick. For six months, they will give you a good rate, and they post that good rate in large letters all over their websites and mailings. After six months, they feed you to the wolves. That's usually when the fine print kicks in. Just type credit card offers in your search engine. You won't find a legit offer. Everything will be special introductory offers. In order to find out what the credit card will eventually cost you, you will have to read the fine print. Did I mention that I hate introductory offers?

Then I encounter Christian evangelism. We sometimes use the special introductory offer principle. We act like salesmen pitching a product. We highlight all the positive aspects. And then we move in for the sale. "Become a Christian and all these things will be yours. Love, joy, peace, patience, and a nice house up in heaven." We love our special introductory offer package. We offer it to everyone. We never mention the cost. Did I mention that I hate introductory offers?

"If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake, and for the sake of the gospel, will save it. For what will it profit them to gain the whole world and forfeit their life?" (Mark 8:34b-36).

That doesn't sound a like a special introductory offer to me. There is no higher price to pay than giving up one's life, but that is what Christ asks for people to do. It is time for us to take up our cross and hang our selfish selves on it. Christianity is total commitment. It isn't part my life and part the life of Christ. Our life needs to become the life of Christ.

I think Jesus hates special introductory offers.

Watch out for the potholes.

Please, don't call America a Chrsitian nation - Individualism Again

American Christians have the belief thing down. We like doctrine. Doctrine allows us to be completely individualistic in our faith. If our faith is about proper doctrine, then we don't need anyone else. We can be lone ranger Christians. We don't need to live in community with other believers. We don't need to follow Jesus' radical commands to love the poor. We don't need to change much about our lives. We just need proper doctrine. Individualism leads to a life of proper doctrine, not a life of love lived in our workplaces, our homes, our churches, and the communities that we live in. Here are some quotes from an article entitled The Christian Paradox that inspired my thoughts.

Three quarters of Americans believe the Bible teaches that “God helps those who help themselves.” That is, three out of four Americans believe that this uber-American idea, a notion at the core of our current individualist politics and culture, which was in fact uttered by Ben Franklin, actually appears in Holy Scripture.

Just so we're using the same definition when I talk about individualism. From the beginning of the article on individualism at Wikipedia: "Individualism is a political and social philosophy that emphasizes individual liberty, belief in the primary importance of the individual and in the virtues of self-reliance and personal independence. It embraces opposition to authority and to all manner of controls over the individual, especially when exercised by the state or society. It is thus directly opposed to collectivism. It may derive from a belief in solipsism." My anti-individualism still leaves room for people to make individual decisions in their faith. It is against exalting the virtues of self-reliance and personal independence.

Back to the quote. I think the quote shows how much individualism has permeated Christian beliefs. Individualism is rampant in our culture, and it runs counter to Christianity. We need to make sure that we keep our defenses up. If we don't, we will soon find ourselves falling prey to individualistic thought. We won't find a need to be involved in a church community. We won't care all that much about loving those who aren't as well off as ourselves. It is their fault after all. Individualism is the greatest threat to Christianity in our times because it is so prevalent in our culture and can slowly tear the church and Christians down from within.

I remember the scene in the Count of Monte Cristo where the main character takes little doses of poison in order to make his body immune to it. Sadly, we have been taken little doses of individualism since the day we were born. We think we have become immune to it like the Count was to poison. We think that it runs paralell to Christianity. However, there is no immunity to individualism. We have to either choose to get sucked into it or deliberately live lives that make us radically different in our culture. Individualism runs contrary to the beliefs Jesus taught.

Depending on which poll you look at and how the question is asked, somewhere around 85 percent of us call ourselves Christian. Israel, by way of comparison, is 77 percent Jewish. It is true that a smaller number of Americans—about 75 percent—claim they actually pray to God on a daily basis, and only 33 percent say they manage to get to church every week. Still, even if that 85 percent overstates actual practice, it clearly represents aspiration.

What if we chose some simple criterion—say, giving aid to the poorest people—as a reasonable proxy for Christian behavior? And it’s not because we were giving to private charities for relief work instead. Such funding increases our average daily donation by just six pennies, to twenty-one cents. It’s also not because Americans were too busy taking care of their own; nearly 18 percent of American children lived in poverty (compared with, say, 8 percent in Sweden). And it’s not because we were giving to private charities for relief work instead. Such funding increases our average daily donation by just six pennies, to twenty-one cents. It’s also not because Americans were too busy taking care of their own; nearly 18 percent of American children lived in poverty (compared with, say, 8 percent in Sweden).


On the GLCC alumni forums we decided that the measure of church health could be viewed most objectively by viewing a church's budget. What a church chooses to spend their money on as a group will more than likely show what they cared about as a group. You can check to see how healthy your church is by looking at how it spends its money. Does your church love the poor? Does your church stand up against the individualism of our culture or do they involve themselves in the lives of those less fortunate? Every church professes to do those things. Sadly, they don't. Look at your budget. The numbers won't lie. Are you in a church that exalts individualism or Christ?

And I wish that people would stop saying that the United States is a Christian nation. The church has a hard enough time living up to the title of being the nation (or kingdom) of God.

I'm still dwelling on the comments about education from the post I made a while ago. I haven't ignored it. I'm just still contemplating.

Watch out for the potholes.